DNA Test: Don't Act Surprised

Q: Why do women get mad when their husband wants a DNA test even though the woman knows her ass was cheating?

A: LoL, good question. I think it's the same reason that men get upset when girls question them about their whereabouts even though they know they have been cheating! People just refuse to admit their wrong-doings until the truth is completely surfaced and they have no other option but to confess. If the woman was not cheating though (even though you say she is), she might want to ask her husband why he doesn't trust her. Trust is a significant part of every relationship and without it, that relationship is doomed to fail...no questions asked! There are also times where one person will be cheating in a relationship and try to take the pressure off of themselves by making it seem like their partner is the one doing wrong. I've seen it done time and time again and if your partner is constantly accusing you of doing wrong for no reason, chances are they're cheating!

When it comes to a relationships, I think people should be more responsible about protection too. Having sex with multiple men unprotected is possibly the dumbest thing you can do. If you get pregnant, you not only have to have both of these men in your life for 18 years (and I'm quite sure neither of them will be happy) but you also have to eventually explain to your child why there is issues regarding his/her's father(s). 9 times out of 10, things will not be easy and a lot of negativity is going to evolve.

Another thing people really don't think about is STD's! We've all had those slip-ups where you get caught in the heat of the moment and decide to have sex unprotected. Yes, even I've done it once or twice. But seriously that one minute of passion can lead to some serious consequences and not everything can be cured with a shot or pill! So if you decide to have sex outside of your relationship, at least have the common courtesy to wrap it up before you endanger you AND your partner!